What is a failure?
Failure is the fact, the state of failure, when we do not win or achieve what we wanted; lack of a goal to be achieved, a state to be achieved, or a result; fight, war, game loss.
And what is fear?
Fear is an escape desire. An uncontrollable impulse due to an imagined (or real) external threat, without perceiving the real facts. Withdrawal from the environment; the feeling of “I’m not dangerous” and “I want to run away from here”.
The sources of our fears are our own experiences, generational experiences, social rejection, and the parenting method of our parents. As a child, you may have often heard that if you are not careful, or if you do this and that, such and such bad consequences will result.
With these sentences, they sowed unfounded fears in us – directly or indirectly, that is another question. However, now you can see that they have determined our future – yours, mine and everyone’s. This has led to the anxiety and fear we now experience.
There are also the socially generated fears, the regular nagging that is quite difficult to turn away from – TV, radio, newspapers, news portals and I could list more.
However, it is your responsibility to work on your own fears.There is an awful lot of fear and negative feelings that affect you. It hinders you, it affects you, it harms you.
Maybe you don’t dare to start a business because of fear, you don’t dare to ask for a salary increase, you don’t dare to have a child, even though you want to, etc.
You make a lot of bad moves because fear is there to stop you. And as a result, you will fail. Which again is not a good feeling and strengthens your fears. Is it possible to overcome this at all? Fortunately, yes, there is a solution.
A wise man once said:
“Failure doesn’t exist. There was just too little push through, i.e. you always have to stand up one more time than you fell or failed.”