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Did You Know Compromise Kills Relationships?

by Emese

During our lives, we have to make a lot of compromises if we want to be successful. But we don’t always feel good about these compromises.

Is there another solution? Or do we really always have to compromise on something?

A compromise or consensus

Of course, there is another solution. There is always another solution. You just have to look for it. But first, let’s see what a compromise is.

Compromise is nothing more than a conciliatory solution, an agreement concluded by compromise, which is based on a conciliatory idea between opposing positions by omitting the contradictory parts.

That doesn’t sound encouraging, does it? In this case, you have to give up something. It’s an either-or solution. You choose either this or that.I don’t think I really need to show you that it doesn’t work in the long run. If you give up on your dreams and goals, you are essentially giving up on yourself, and this leads to sadness, depression, and apathy.

You lose your momentum, your energy. And who are you going to take this resentment and bad mood out on? Well, your relationships. On your family, friends.

The other way

Do you know how successful and wealthy people live? They don’t use either-or method. They don’t make a choice between two or more things. It is their way of thinking. I choose this and that.

You could say that it’s easy for them, because they are rich and can buy themselves anything. But let’s see how you can apply this approach to your own life and feel better and better with it.

And if you feel better about yourself, you will be more and more successful. And you will become richer and richer, whether materially, emotionally, intellectually.

This is called consensus. What is this? Consensus is an agreement among the members of a given group. Consensus usually involves cooperation rather than compromise.

Instead of one opinion being accepted by the majority, the members bring the interested parties together to negotiate until they reach a decision that points in one direction.

Let’s look at a concrete example of this:

For example, one wants to go to a lake on vacation, while the other wants to go to the mountains. The compromise would be that one year they vacation here and the next year there. Or that it’s a few days here, a few days there.

However, the consensus is that it is necessary to examine why they want to vacation where they want. One of them wants to go to the lake for the waterfront, while the other wants to go to the mountains for the fresh air. So we need a solution where both conditions are met, there is water and the air is fresh.

This is a win-win solution, i.e. a solution in which both parties prevail and are good for both parties.

So you see, it’s not that difficult to apply this to your life and everyone is doing well. It’s worth adopting this approach in all areas of your life.

I think you want to be rich and successful too.

If you have any questions, or just want to share your opinion or comments, feel free to do so in the comment section, I would be happy to receive them.

If you found the article useful and it helped you, or if you just liked it, please share it with your friends and acquaintances. Thanks.

Cheers,

Emese

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