There is a triangle with the following at its vertices: one vertex is love, or affinity, the other vertex is reality, or reality, and the third vertex is speech, or communication. Why are they in a triangle? Because they are connected. Neither exists without the other. Their size and quality are also connected. If one increases, the other two also increase. If one decreases, the other two also decrease. You cannot separate them. You may succeed for a moment, but not in the long run.